HOW DO I KNOW IF I'M IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

 DOES YOUR PARTNER:

  •  Humiliate, embarrass, ridicule or put you down in public or private?
  •  Attempt to separate you from your family and friends?
  •  Blame you for all problems in the relationship?
  •  Control all finances in the household?
  •  Deny you access to money or insist that you account for every penny you spend?
  •  Prevent you from going to temple if an argument or fight has occurred?
  •  Always check up on you to see where you go and what you do?
  •  Deny or punish your children when he’s angry with you?
  •  Insist on having more children even though there are problems in the relationship?
  •  Threaten to hurt your children, family members, or pets? 
  •  Take away your car or house keys?
  •  Use excessive alcohol and/or drugs?
  •  Use his bad childhood as an excuse for his violence?
  •  Slap, shove, punch or throw objects at you?
  •  Force you to have sex or perform unwanted sexual acts?

DO YOU FREQUENTLY:

  •  Change your behavior to deal with your partner’s moods and temper?
  •  Always worry about what kind of mood your partner will be in?
  •  Feel like you are walking on egg shells?
  •  Feel like you are going crazy?
  •  Fear the consequences of being yourself?
  •  Feel isolated or alone and have no one to talk to?

 

These are all warning signs that a relationship could be abusive and unhealthy.  If you or anyone you know needs help, please call 1 888 883 2323.